Vital Friends: The People You Can't Afford to Live Without

  • 1h 54m
  • Tom Rath
  • Gallup Press
  • 2006

What's the quickest way to ruin a friendship? Do great friendships have anything in common? Are close friendships in the workplace such a bad thing?

These are just a few of the questions that #1 New York Times bestselling author Tom Rath asked when he embarked on a massive study about the impact of friendships. Along with several leading researchers, Rath pored through the literature, conducted several experiments, and analyzed more than 8 million interviews from The Gallup Organization's worldwide database.

His team's discoveries produced Vital Friends, a book that challenges long-held assumptions people have about their relationships. And the team's landmark discovery — that people who have a "best friend at work" are seven times as likely to be engaged in their job — is sure to rattle the structure of organizations around the world.

Drawing on research and case studies from topics as diverse as management, marriage, and architecture, Vital Friends reveals what's common to all truly essential friendships: a regular focus on what each person is contributing to the friendship — rather than the all-too-common approach of expecting one person to be everything.

Tom Rath's fast-paced and inviting storytelling takes a mountain of important research and makes it remarkably accessible and applicable. By the time you finish reading Vital Friends, you'll see your coworkers, family, friends, and significant other in a whole new light.

About the Author

Tom Rath is coauthor of the #1 New York Times and #1 BusinessWeek bestseller, How Full Is Your Bucket? With more than 500,000 copies in print within its first year of publication, his book has spent 15 months on the domestic bestseller list. Now available in more than 10 languages, Rath’s book has also been an international bestseller.

After 12 years with The Gallup Organization, Rath now leads Gallup’s Workplace Research and Leadership Consulting worldwide. He also serves on the board of VHL.org, an organization dedicated to cancer research and patient support.

Rath earned his bachelor’s degree in psychology from the University of Michigan. He is currently pursuing graduate degrees at Johns Hopkins University and the University of Pennsylvania.

Gallup Press exists to educate and inform the people who govern, manage, teach, and lead the world’s six billion citizens. Each book meets The Gallup Organization’s requirements of integrity, trust, and independence and is based on Gallup-approved science and research.

In this Book

  • Vital Friends—The People You Can’t Afford to Live Without
  • Introduction: Something’s Missing
  • Who Expects You To Be Somebody?
  • The Energy Between
  • Better Than Prozac?
  • The Silver Lining In a Marriage
  • The Rounding Error
  • Does Work Balance Life?
  • The Three-Friend Threshold
  • Can You Be Friends With Your Boss?
  • Getting Engaged At Work
  • Sharpening Each Relationship
  • The Eight Vital Roles
  • Family Ties
  • The Water Cooler Effect
  • Plugging In
  • Parting Thoughts
  • Notes
  • Suggested Reading
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